
AI as Therapist and Matchmaker: The Global Surge in Intimate Digital Reliance
Surveys across Europe and the Americas show a sharp rise in young people using AI for emotional support, dating, and health advice, even as experts warn of risks to mental wellbeing and authenticity.
A European survey of 3,800 young people aged 11 to 25 found that 54 per cent of Swedish respondents discuss personal and intimate problems with artificial intelligence, a figure that rises to 63 per cent in Germany and 62 per cent in Ireland. In the United States, a separate study of 5,000 singles reported that 26 per cent used AI to enhance their dating profiles in 2025, a more than 300 per cent increase on the previous year. These data points mark a rapid normalisation of AI in the most private corners of daily life, from mental health to romance.
The mechanism behind this shift lies partly in the design of AI systems, which are programmed to be agreeable and affirming. Per Carlbring, professor of clinical psychology at Stockholm University, notes that while AI may offer short-term comfort, it often worsens long-term psychological wellbeing because effective therapy requires challenge, not constant validation. Virginia Dignum, professor of responsible AI at Umeå University, describes the flattery as an engagement strategy akin to social media algorithms, designed to foster dependency. Brazilian psychoanalyst Christian Dunker goes further, labelling AI-driven conversations as ‘anti-therapy’ that isolates users by never confronting them with uncomfortable truths. The pandemic accelerated a mass migration to digital platforms, as Colombian communication researchers observe, with social media now functioning as primary spaces for work, education, and emotional expression, blurring the line between public and private life. In Argentina, psychiatrists are promoting digital detox methods such as the Pomodoro technique to help adolescents regain impulse control and mitigate anxiety linked to device dependence.
The consequences extend across multiple domains. A US health foundation survey from 2026 found that 32 per cent of adults had used AI chatbots for health information, and a study in the Journal of Medical Internet Research showed 60 per cent believed such tools helped them make better decisions. Brazilian plastic surgeons warn that AI-generated images simulating cosmetic procedures create unrealistic expectations, as the technology cannot account for individual healing processes. On dating platforms, users report feeling deceived by AI-altered photos, prompting companies like Bumble and happn to introduce reporting mechanisms for AI-generated profiles. Meanwhile, AI is colonising the home: Amazon’s Alexa+ now features conversational memory, Samsung’s Vision AI Companion turns televisions into digital observers, and OpenAI has confirmed development of a physical device with camera and sensors, designed to reside in living spaces.
In Indonesia, doctors are deploying AI to detect pregnancy risks earlier by analysing health data patterns, but they stress that the technology remains a support tool, with ultrasound and clinical judgement still essential. This tension between assistance and over-reliance frames the next milestone: the commercial launch of OpenAI’s home device, which will bring conversational AI into physical spaces, even as medical associations worldwide call for clear regulatory guidelines on AI’s role in health and psychological advice.
| Continental European press | 0.00 | neutral |
|---|---|---|
| Latin American press | −0.70 | critical |
| Russian & CIS press | 0.00 | neutral |
Continental Europe acknowledges the phenomenon but urges caution: AI is not a therapist.
It presents an expert opinion (psychologist) to counterbalance positive user testimonials, creating a false equivalence between accessible support and potential harm.
It omits the broader context of why young people turn to AI—lack of access to affordable therapy, stigma, and convenience—which would strengthen the case for AI as a stopgap.
Latin America denounces the dangers of AI as a confidant: a threat to mental health and authenticity.
It accumulates concrete examples of harm (deception, therapy replacement, beauty standards) to build a narrative of generalized crisis, making the risk seem pervasive and inevitable.
It omits any positive user testimonials or data showing that AI can provide effective, low-barrier support for those without access to traditional therapy.
Russia downplays the story's relevance, focusing on AI's technical unreliability and manipulability.
It ignores the substantive issue of AI as a confidant and replaces it with technical news (outage, manipulation), suggesting that the real problem is AI's functionality, not its role in personal life.
It omits any discussion of the emotional or psychological dimensions of AI use, as well as the European data on young people's behavior.
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